cupid missed

Stumbled across this interesting little article in a health website, Yahoo’s Health (actually Men’s Health) and it talked about how flirting is good for relationships!

It’s Dave Zinczenko’s Mysteries of the Sexes Explained, and called: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship.

Basically he says that flirting is good for you. But you have to be careful to take that energy and good that you get from the flirting and put it back into your real relationship. Not to go off on some chase for that cute guy or girl you flirt with on occasion.

How’s it work? He essentially tells you that flirting gives you confidence. We all know that confidence is eroded everyday. Why because of us here knowing that Cupid has missed, there are times when confidence seems non-existent. So even if you aren’t confident, you can feel it!

Second, he says it builds up sexual energy. That anticipation, tease, and fantasy can get you wound up - perfect for a great night at home.

And it also keeps you sharp. You will keep yourself on top of your game and mentally sharp and aware of the sexual side of life. And maybe you’ll be lucky and never enter the dating scene again (happily hooked) but if you do, your skills will be sharp.

And I’ll second his word of caution. Don’t let the flirting turn into something that will destroy your existing relationship. If you don’t have one, such as my case, then I caution me to try and not destroy someone else’s good thing!

More from Dave can be found by clicking here, where they have reprinted a bit of one of his articles about the differences between flirting & cheating.

I love this week … between Christmas and New Year’s. There is the opportunity to go to work - but not really to have to do any work. There’s chances to socialize with the few other people in the office - and hopefully that cutie you haven’t gotten around to much is in!

But the problem is, that no one really has a good schedule. Its kind of hard to contact your friends. And the friends who were so busy making Christmas plans may make some New Year’s plans and exclude you. That would suck! So, take a little initiative and bring yourself back into their picture. If you don’t hear anything from them, then give them a call and just chat a while. Don’t invite yourself to whatever they’ve got going on, but make sure your remembered!

Enjoy the parties!

This time of year is a great time to score invitations to parties. It is also a great time to meet new people! So don’t just sit at home and sulk, ask around — find as many parties and events to go to as you possibly can and go. Suck it up, swallow your pride, and go. Enjoy yourself.

There are few things more appealing that someone who truly enjoys themselves and has a great time, whether they have a date or not! Be that guy or girl!